David, my husband, had a difficult childhood, he carries the trauma from then around with him even today. Even with counseling he let's let control how he treats our children and myself. We've been married 38 years. He does well for a short period of time then goes back to being hateful, vindictive and childish. He's a procrastinator. Hejustifies his behavior instead of correcting it.The older he gets the worse this behavior has become. He just turned 68. I'm 67. I can tolerate his behavior but our adult children shouldn't have to deal with his behavior.

Please pray that God will help David and guide him. That God will help heal him. This would help our marriage. I need prayers to try to understand what God wants me to do.

Thank you